Comments on: On relationships http://kristinrides.com/2010/01/on-relationships/ Thu, 10 Jun 2010 17:12:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: K http://kristinrides.com/2010/01/on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-1061 K Sat, 23 Jan 2010 05:40:36 +0000 http://kristinrides.com/?p=920#comment-1061 thanks for these comments...really makes me feel better. mostly i just feel like a complete idiot right now for letting this happen to me. thanks for these comments…really makes me feel better. mostly i just feel like a complete idiot right now for letting this happen to me.

]]> By: Linda http://kristinrides.com/2010/01/on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-1059 Linda Sat, 23 Jan 2010 02:26:07 +0000 http://kristinrides.com/?p=920#comment-1059 wow, I can really relate. I've totally been there, and learned a lot from it. I like Tiffany's idea to pay attention - that's what I need to do, pay attention to the red flags. And that intuition is always right. You'll be fine. wow, I can really relate. I’ve totally been there, and learned a lot from it. I like Tiffany’s idea to pay attention – that’s what I need to do, pay attention to the red flags. And that intuition is always right.

You’ll be fine.

]]> By: Tiffany http://kristinrides.com/2010/01/on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-1058 Tiffany Fri, 22 Jan 2010 21:28:05 +0000 http://kristinrides.com/?p=920#comment-1058 Reading about this stuff is hard... Namely because we've all been through it, are going through it, or will be soon enough;) All I know is, I've retired the phrase, "Be careful" in my life. I've traded it for "Pay attention." Because that's how we learn... Wisdom, depth, and strength have never come from being careful in my experience. And it applies to any situation from being in the woods to biking to love:) It seems to me, Kristin, you were doing just that:) So pick yourself up, give yourself a kiss and a pat on the back, and come out dancing tomorrow night! I always used to splurge on a nice soft, fuzzy some what expensive teddy bear to help me sleep for those wretched few nights following the dissolving of a relationship. It may sound stupid and corny, but it reeeeaaallly helped me! Reading about this stuff is hard… Namely because we’ve all been through it, are going through it, or will be soon enough;)

All I know is, I’ve retired the phrase, “Be careful” in my life. I’ve traded it for “Pay attention.” Because that’s how we learn… Wisdom, depth, and strength have never come from being careful in my experience. And it applies to any situation from being in the woods to biking to love:) It seems to me, Kristin, you were doing just that:) So pick yourself up, give yourself a kiss and a pat on the back, and come out dancing tomorrow night!
I always used to splurge on a nice soft, fuzzy some what expensive teddy bear to help me sleep for those wretched few nights following the dissolving of a relationship. It may sound stupid and corny, but it reeeeaaallly helped me!

]]> By: uma http://kristinrides.com/2010/01/on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-1057 uma Fri, 22 Jan 2010 20:48:37 +0000 http://kristinrides.com/?p=920#comment-1057 Aw girl. Give it time. Trying to analyze the whys and whats and what ifs and whatnots so soon to the shattering of your dreams won't do anything useful. Deep breaths. Come back to being the best you can be (because you've been making AWESOME progress in EVERY regard, with the important priorities you've set for yourself!) and trust that you'll find what you want eventually. You deserve to be met by someone who is totally, hopelessly, fantastically into you. ((( hug ))) Aw girl. Give it time. Trying to analyze the whys and whats and what ifs and whatnots so soon to the shattering of your dreams won’t do anything useful. Deep breaths. Come back to being the best you can be (because you’ve been making AWESOME progress in EVERY regard, with the important priorities you’ve set for yourself!) and trust that you’ll find what you want eventually. You deserve to be met by someone who is totally, hopelessly, fantastically into you. ((( hug )))

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